TAURUS Feb, 18, 2012
If a current opportunity or investment possibility is causing you to have doubts or to feel like you need to know more, then by all means take your time before you make a commitment or take things any further. Just because you are feeling apprehensive doesn't necessarily mean that something isn't right. It could just be your sixth sense advising you to be more thorough so that you know precisely what you're getting into. There is more for you to discover before you move forward. Play it safe, but don't stop playing!
I wrote that ^ shit on the 18th FUCK IT!
Today His girlfriend replied... here are the messages...
- February 16
- Hey this is Alberio’s bestfriend (hes deployed with your boyfriend) i know you dont know me and it might come off as weird, me randomly messaging you. Hes been kind of distant lately and i was wondering if i could get some advice as to how you and your boyfriend keep your relationship together despite the distance? Does he call you or skype or anything like that? Did he do anything special for you on valentines day things like that? i’m just worried he’s holding stuff in you know... I’m terrified of him coming back with ptsd
5 hours ago- Hi Lesly,
I’m sorry I am just answering your message, I didn’t see it until this morning. It’s definitely not weird that you messaged me. I’m glad that you felt comfortable reaching out to someone who might understand what you are going through. I have had a few army wives and girlfriends do the same and I have reached out to a few myself. Never feel bad or awkward about asking for advice.
I definitely understand that the distance is difficult and painful and most of the time and it’s hard to worry every day, but you’re not alone in that, every military friend, girlfriend and family member is in the same place as you. I find comfort knowing that others are going through the same difficulties as I am.
I don’t know Alberio, but if he is acting distant, I think the best thing you can do is let him know you are going to be there for him if he needs you. If you feel that he is keeping things in, as hard as it might be not to push him to tell you, it really is the best thing. At least that’s what I have found works the best. Always let him know you are here waiting and ready for the time that he is ready or wants to share what he is going through. He most likely won’t tell you what it is that is bothering him but my boyfriend said that he’s glad to know he can share it with me if he needed to.
To answer your question, we have only skyped twice since Matt has been deployed, but I think that is for the best. As much as I love seeing him, it makes it so much harder when he has to sign off, we don’t get to talk on the phone very often either, but when we do it means even more. It’s really hard loving someone so far away, you and I both know that. If you need anything, don’t hesitate or feel weird asking me.
Good luck,
Jess
p.s. I find this quote very helpful hope you do too
“Distance is to love as wind is to fire, it extinguishes the small and kindles the great.” -unknown
about an hour ago
Hi Jessica,
Thank you so much for getting back to me; it means the world to me that you took the time out of your day to reply to this message with so much detail and understanding.
I will take your advice and use it down the road whenever it is necessary and wherever it leads me.
Even though you don’t know me and i personally don’t know you id like to let you know you are one amazing girl (if you didn’t already know that) like the few of us out there. You deserve the best and nothing but the best, NEVER forget that.
Best of luck to you and Sloan .
-Julieth, yes Julieth Lesly’s bestfriend and the person who actually wrote the initial message and this one. I used her facebook with her permission obviously just because.
Getting a reply made me shaky, reading the message sunk my heart. How could anyone be so heartless?
This world is hopeless i tell you, HOPELESS! maybe one day.
This is what ill send to him tomorrow as soon as he tries to text me:
"Hey Sloan
Remember back when we had a conversation about your relationship status?
If I recall correctly you gave me your word and I trusted you to be truthful, even though I KNEW you were lying. I somehow managed to get that thought out of my head, simply because I didn't want to believe the circumstances and I had fallen for your sweet words.
That stuff is irrelevant though. I already did my share of grieving and feeling stupid for believing a guy, besides I'm used to getting screwed over. That is why I was acting weird fyi...
Seriously though forget my feelings, I'm just a random girl from the Internet flattered by your words; Think about your wonderful girlfriend. She's a keeper and I've said this before but this time I actually mean it. So beautiful and kind. She doesn't deserve this shit don't be an idiot and screw up something so wonderful and valuable. Not that i would know from experience but i can imagine there is nothing like having a person there for you unconditionally loving you! And I envy you for having that. I know you love her too and the stuff you do for her means the world to her. Let this be your wake up call. I'm not the kind of girl to ruin relationships and I made that very clear the first day, I'm not going to message your girlfriend saying anything that could wreck your relationship (even though i feel like i owe her that much) because that isn't me, to be honest with you I feel really shitty that I ended up caught up in something like this and I'm not sure how to handle it, but I will do my best.
I know you weren't enough of a man to tell me the truth from the start and avoid leading me on. I feel hurt and I don't wish that upon anyone, maybe that's the reason why I won't say anything, nobody else needs to feel hurt. Man up and face me like the little bitch you are.
Other than that I wish you the best.”
I’m just at a complete loss for words, i dont have anything else to say.
xoxo Julieth
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